The Delta Kappa Gamma (DKG) Society is an international honor society that's dedicated towards recognizing and supporting women in education. With a mission to promote professional and personal growth for women educators by way of their 62,351 members, including 4,000 right here in North Carolina.
I had the honor of sharing my story with the ETA Chapter at their business meeting on November 8, 2024, thanks to an invitation from Vice President and Wake County Library Director, Tammy Baggett. Tammy reached out and asked if my daughter, Haelee and I could speak about our collective journey and how it ties into the realm of education. Haelee unfortunately wasn't feeling well, so the spotlight was solely on me to deliver the story.
I reflected on my educational background and career, highlighting the significant moments that shaped my path during my speech titled, "Words Change the World." I openly shared how I was both a high school and college dropout, but with the unwavering support of my grandmother, whom I affectionately called Granny, I persevered. Granny was my rock, constantly encouraging and praying over me even when others spoke negatively about my decisions. I conveyed to the audience that the spirit of dedication Granny instilled in me enabled me to finish both high school and college where I graduated with honors. Her belief in me was a testament to the power of support and determination. I also acknowledged that my current successes aren't mine alone, they're rooted in the support and love from my wife, Vanessa, who stands by me through all of my quirks with love and patience. Vanessa is my sounding board, prayer partner, and so much more.
I emphasized that each woman in the room is a hero in the eyes of their children, grandchildren, nieces, nephews, students, and communities. Like Granny, they have the power to shape the future without needing capes, as described in Haelee's book, "Everyday Heroes." Â
To drive the message home, I challenged each member to use their power to empower and uplift at least one child in their life, encouraging them to be better than me. By doing so, they can contribute to a brighter future for everyone
I concluded my speech by sharing how "The Rules of a Big Boss" was formed and took a few questions from the audience. I gifted a book to Maria Johnson, President ETA Chapter, for her kindness in hosting us, with the understanding that she has a granddaughter who could benefit from it as a token of appreciation.
It was a profound experience to connect with such dedicated women and share my journey. That being said, I encourage all women in the educational field to consider joining and becoming a part of this incredible community.
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